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13 Mayıs 2016 Cuma

Upwork’s CEO on How an Introverted Engineer Learned to Lead

...I also recognized early on that I was an introvert, although I probably didn’t know the word for it at the time. Some kids in high school clearly thrive on popularity and going out all the time—being surrounded by lots of people. In contrast, I enjoyed being with a small number of people. I liked to read books, program computers, and do things by myself. I’m not completely socially awkward—I can get by in a crowd, but it doesn’t come naturally.

...A lot of a CEO’s job comes down to emotional intelligence and understanding what other people need and want. Some days I feel like the company’s chief psychologist, and I have to be emotionally prepared for that. My natural impulse when I hear about a problem is to go to a whiteboard and start to diagram how to fix it, the way an engineer would. But for a CEO that’s often not the right response. A lot of the people who bring problems to the CEO aren’t looking for a solution—they just want to feel that they’ve been heard. That isn’t always the easiest part of my job, but it is a part, so I’m learning to listen first and not see every situation as a problem that needs a solution.

...I’ve also learned a lot about time management and what kind of direction I should be giving employees about day-to-day tasks. I’m now out of the office more, because speaking with customers and investors and attending conferences is really important to our business. So when I’m in the office, I need to be there for team members, to provide guidance and hear details about what they’re doing. But I haven’t taken this need as an invitation to micro­manage; I still let employees do what they do best.

...My role is to help people feel excited about their work, empower them, and give them the resources they require to do their jobs well.

https://hbr.org/2016/05/upworks-ceo-on-how-an-introverted-engineer-learned-to-lead

7 Things to Say When a Conversation Turns Negative

Every person is at least 75% responsible for how others treat them. Our verbal and nonverbal actions limit or expand the options of others. For example, if someone asks, “How are you?” as he or she walks by, you know better than to turn around and walk with them in order to provide an extensive answer. By continuing to walk past, the person signals that only a nod or brief reply is expected. However, if that person were to stop and look you in the eye when asking the same question, your options change. Their behavior has invited more than a reflexive answer.

We’re all creatures of habit, and communication patterns help us avoid having to think about everything we utter. But when we slip into patterns solely because we’ve failed to develop other response choices, we become predictable. If you are known for a tendency to avoid conflict, for example, others can generate conditions that will cause you to pull back, apologize, or walk away. You abdicate a portion of your 75% responsibility. That’s not good!

Highly political work arenas require a degree of street smarts to survive and thrive. It’s important to know effective ways of responding to tough situations.

Reframe — Cast the issue in a different light. If someone says, “I don’t want to fight about this,” a useful reframe of that comment is, “This is a debate, certainly not a fight. And you’re a good debater, as I recall.”

Rephrase — Say the words in a different, less negative way. Should someone accuse you of having come on too strongly in a meeting, you might reply, “I was passionate.” If you’re described as stubborn, you could say, “I’m very determined when something is important to a successful effort.”

Revisit — Use an earlier success to redefine a current failure.“We have a good track record working together. No reason to change that now.”

Restate — Clarify or redirect negative wording.“Surely there’s another way to say that” or “Did you mean what I think I heard?” are useful ways to encourage a person to reconsider and alter what was said.

Request — Ask a question. “Would you clarify for me what you meant just then?”

Rebalance — Adjust the other person’s power.“Fortunately, I’m not easily offended, especially by one-off situations like this.”

Reorganize — Change the priority of the issues. “We seem to agree on the what but are having some difficulty with the how.”

https://hbr.org/2016/05/7-things-to-say-when-a-conversation-turns-negative

5 Mayıs 2016 Perşembe

Hedefimdeki müzeler

1- Rahmi M. Koç Müzesi


2- Key Museum -İzmir

http://www.keymuseum.com/

3- İstanbul Arkeoloji Müzesi

http://www.istanbularkeoloji.gov.tr/muze
4- Satranç Müzesi ( Gökyay Satranç Spor ve Kültür Vakfı) - Ankara

http://www.gokyaysatrancvakfi.org.tr/

5- Balat Kültür Evi

http://www.balatkulturevi.org/

6- Pera Müzesi - İstanbul



11 Nisan 2016 Pazartesi

Julius Caesar

Caesar'ın kanatlarında büyüyen tüyleri
Yolalım ki böyle yolabildiğimiz kadar
Fazla yükseklere uçamasın alabildiğine:
Yoksa insanüstü yüceliklere ulaşıp
Bir köle korkaklığı içinde yaşatır bizi

Hangi göz sağlamdır boyanmayacak kadar?

Sen ne duruyorsun öyle put gibi
Dünya sarsılırken temelinden?

Ah ne oldurdu, Caesar'ın canına kıymadan
Caesar'ın düşüncesini alaşağı edebilseydik!

Gözlerinizden okunmasın kurduklarınız.
Tiyatro oyuncuları gibi Roma'mızın
Sürçmeden, renk vermeden oynayalım rolümüzü.
İyi sabahlar hepinize.

Yüreğimi paralıyor değerli insanların
Kıskançlığın dişlerinden kurtulamaması

Doğru yoldan saptırılabilir miyim ben.
Budalaları baştan çıkaran şeylerle,
Tatlı diller, iki büklüm bellerle,
Aşağılık köpek yaltaklanmalarıyla?

Sende mi Brutus? Öyleyse yıkıl Caesar!

İnsanın ettiği kötülük yaşar ardından,
İyilikleriyse toprağa gider kemikleriyle.

Bir dalkavuğun gözüdür o görmeyen,
Kötülük dağlar kadar büyüse bile karşısında.

Ah kör olası Aldanış, kara düşüncenin oğlu,
Sen hep olmayan şeyleri
Sokmaya çalışırsın insanların kafasına.

Ah Julius Caesar, hala ayaktasın sen;
Ruhun dolaşıyor aramızda; kılıçlarımızı
Kendi ciğerimize saplatıyor bize!

William Shakespeare

3 Nisan 2016 Pazar

Yabancı

'İnsan yavaş yürürse güneş çarpma riski var.Hızlı yürürse kan ter içinde kalır, kilisede de soğuk alır.'

'...insanın hiçbir zaman hayatını değiştirmediğini, her hayatın birbirine benzediğini, buradaki hayatımdan şikayetçi olmadığımı söyledim.'

'Her şey, ben karıştırılmaksızın olup bitiyordu.Kaderim, bana fikir sorulmadan belirleniyordu.'

'Ben, her zaman olacak şeyin, bugunun veya yarının etkisi altında olan bir insandım.'

'O zaman şunu anladım ki, bir tek gün dışarıda yaşamış olan bir kimse, hiç zahmetsiz yüz sene hapiste kalabilir. Canının sıkılmaması için yeter derecede anıya sahip olmuştur artık. Bir bakıma, faydalı bir şeydir bu.'


'Herkes bilir ki hayat, yaşanmak zahmetine değmeyen bir şeydir.'
Albert Camus